Tuesday, December 30, 2008
every minister, every priest,
every rabbi, every teacher, every guru,
every Master, every president, every prime minister,
every king, every queen, every leader, every nation,
every political party
to issue one statement that would heal the world:
OURS IS NOT A BETTER WAY, OURS IS MERELY ANOTHER WAY.
-- Neale Donald Walsch
You actually kill people to get people to stop killing people.
It is insanity to use the energy that created a problem to seek to solve the problem.
It is insanity to repeat the behaviors you want to stop in order to stop them.
It is insanity to model behaviors all over your society that you say you do not want your offspring to copy.
And the highest insanity is pretending that none of this is happening, then wondering why your children are acting insane.
-- Neale Donald Walsch
We are made up of thousands of others.
Everyone who has ever done a kind deed for us, or spoken one word of encouragement to us, has entered into the make-up of our character and of our thoughts, as well as our success.
-- George Burton Adams (1851 - 1925)
great humilities—of not trying to make ourselves this or that
(to conform to some dramatized version of ourselves),
but of surrendering ourselves to the fullness of life—of letting life flow through us.
-- David Grayson
It is like what Lao Zhi said in Dao Te Jing,
Nature flows and grows if human being do not block and destroy it!
Let life flow through us!
Thursday, December 25, 2008
To your enemy, forgiveness.
To an opponent, tolerance.
To a friend, your heart.
To a customer, service.
To all, charity.
To every child, a good example.
To yourself, respect.
-- Oren Arnold
To prepare the gift, you need time to calm your mind, open your heart, refine your thought and be mindful about your behaviour. When you are ready to give, learn to wrap it up nicely and present it to those who are readly or glad to receive.
Some time, a gift given at the wrong time, to a wrong person, with a wrong thought, or in a wrong way may make the gift unwanted.
Precise gift not accepted or unwanted, is wasted.
Today is Christmas, and to start giving, just do the last thing first:
Give yourself a great gift today: Respect
and the rest will fall in nicely!
Saturday, December 20, 2008
Learn to be flexible with your choice and the day stays positive when something happen do not match your first choice.
If you are rigid, when you can not get your best choice in anything, the day will goes sour.
The day stays positive or goes sour is more to do with your fears to change than with reality.
I think I it is not a good time to start any new plans, instead, save them for the New Year.
It is good to wrap up old projects I started this year and spend some quality time tidying up my office and put all the essential things/tools in place where they belong.
I learn now that if I try to make everything happen at once, I may miss out on opportunities that come along the way.
It our nature to push and work through very busy schedule sometime, nevertheless, when we have too many projects at hand, we may not be able to cope, and frustration will be the end results!
As most of the time, ideas need time before that can evolve, we should be patience and allow things to develop and then make our move along the way.
All big achievements can only come if we have the patience to wait, to shape and to let it develop and bloom slowly.
Thursday, December 18, 2008
The law is inexorable.
Failure or lack in your life is simply the result of continuously minus-ing yourself.
Conversely, success and prosperity are the results of constantly plus-ing yourself.
-- Eric Butterworth, Spiritual Economics
We lose many irreplaceable hours brooding over grievances that, in a year's time, will be forgotten by us and by everybody.
No, let us devote our life to worthwhile actions and feelings, to great thoughts, real affections and enduring undertakings.
-- Andre Maurois (1885-1967)
It is the basic nature of human beings to be loving.
When humans are being horrible, it is because of something they believe.
Ask them, therefore --
even in the midst of the horror --
What hurts you so much that you feel you have to hurt me to heal it?
-- Neale Donald Walsch
In order to be free, we must learn how to let go.
Release the hurt. Release the fear. Refuse to entertain your old pain.
The energy it takes to hang onto the past is holding you back from a new life.
-- Mary Manin Morrissey
Everyone is, when they choose to be.
A city on a hill cannot be hidden.
Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bushel.
Instead, they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house.
-- Neale Donald Walsch
An optimistic person will be constantly challenged – by external circumstances as well as inner fears and doubts.
Always remember that these tests are like a ladder you must climb.
As you move past each rung, your optimism strengthens and your confidence begins to flex newly found muscle that you might never have developed otherwise.
-- Montague Ewards
Wednesday, December 17, 2008
Monday, December 08, 2008
Instead of going out and running at a busy pace, I just like to stay at home to read newspaper or catch up on some good books to calm the nerves.
Some time, if the eyes are too tired and reading become a task that is hard to accomplish, listening to music or news is a great release!
Instead of creating a busy schedule with lot of self-imposed enrichment activities, I just like to be lazy and simply do nothing!
If you think doing nothing is easy, my experience tell me that it is not.
To calm the mind is hard as we are so used to keep my mind updated with social trends, current news and knowledge acquisitions.
We need activities to make us feel that we are living!
Some joys in life do come from fruitful and meaningful activities.
Nevertheless, it's important to simply do nothing and use this space to regroup our mind.
If I utilize all the energy I can for a while, I will soon find things get hectic and beyond my control. Whenever I used to enjoy will become a task/chore that I find it hard to accompanied!
Be happy now.
Don't wait for something outside of yourself to make you happy in the future.
Think how really precious is the time you have to spend, whether it's at work or with your family.
Every minute should be enjoyed and savored.
-- Earl Nightingale (1921-1989)
It may look simple and sound easy to do so.
Nevertheless, I am trying very hard to follow the words and translating them to real life.
Some how, I can only do it once a while, now and then.
It is easy to forget about it for a long while and pick it up again here and there.
Is it not true that most of us are like that?
We are a bit absence-minded when our life is concerned. We know what we should do, yet pursuing something else and distant ourselves from it.
After going astray for a while (sometimes a long while), we would then re-look at what is our inner calling.
Even then, we take time to weight the pros and con of letting go of what we are pursuing.
It is hard to come to a decision of dropping every and learn to enjoy every minutes of our life!
So, "Learn to enjoy every minute of your life. Be happy now!"
If you are waiting for something outside of yourself to make you happy in the future. It will happen only your are the one who created or planted the seed of your own happiness now!
Monday, December 01, 2008
Forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and get free.
-- Catherine Ponder
Throughout all history, the great wise men and teachers, philosophers, and prophets have disagreed with one another on many different things.
It is only on this one point that they are in complete and unanimous agreement. -
We become what we think about.
-- Earl Nightingale (1921-1989)
We become what we think about:
The only one who suffers from the resentment you have is you yourself.
The longer you hold the resentment toward that person whom you dislike, the longer you bear the feeling.
Why makes your life so miserable and bitter with bad memory or emotion that you do not like to hold nor keep?
Delete it, remove it or migrant your thought to something more positive or more joyful!
Fill your emotion/thought with things that make you feel good.
Be graceful to people who makes your life meaningful, comfortable or convenient, and pass it on...
Enjoy the company of good friends whom you make along your life journey.
In the absence of good company, have good thought that fill your empty mind.
If you find your circle of friends are not good enough, change the way you treat your friends.
As friends mirror your thought and behavior, and like-minded attracted like-minded, one can only get friends one choose to make and keep!
Instead of looking for new friends and turn good and old friends to enemies or strangers, enhance your relationship with old friends while you make new one.
Adding new friends to your life should not be at the expense of old and bona fide friends.
Old friends are like old wine, they are better with the increase in age and time!
Sunday, November 30, 2008
For some days/weeks, I may have lot of heavy tasks to complete within short notice, a few workshops to attend in a row, and on top of that, family obligations to fulfil.
If what I feel loaded is self imposed, I will revise my schedule and re-alocate time for less urgent tasks.
If it is imposed by others, I will speak up when I feel that others aren't treating me fairly. If providing others some convenient drain me too much, I will just take a break.
Establish proper boundaries with my friends is not an issue as I have friends who are like-minded. Multi-respect for one's time and boundaries makes us good friends and that is what I treasure most!
Wednesday, November 26, 2008
Saturday, November 22, 2008
-- Lt. John B. Putnam Jr. (1921-1944)
Fear is a darkroom where negatives develop.
-- Usman B. Asif
Worry gives a small thing a big shadow.
-- Swedish proverb
Keep your fears to yourself, but share your courage with others.
Keep your fears to yourself, but share your inspiration with others.
-- Robert Louis Stevenson
A cheerful frame of mind, reinforced by relaxation...
is the medicine that puts all ghosts of fear on the run.
-- George Matthew Adams
Every time we choose safety, we reinforce fear.
-- Cheri Huber
Too many people are thinking of security instead of opportunity.
-- James F. Bymes
Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.
-- Marie Curie
When we expose our fears to the light of thoughtful examination they usually just evaporate.
-- Jack Canfield
I think when one is full of fear, it is natural that one will withdraw from any new ventures or existing tasks as fear weakens one's ability to scrutinise and analyse.
It is hard to find your way out when your world is darkened by your own fears. You need some light to shine on your dark screen. With the light on the screen, you will be able to see images in your mind more clearly and fear will slowly evaporate.
What kind of light you do you need? Some look for it in books or search the net, some just need a conversation with a close friend, others find it through religion. No fixed rules, as long as it works for you at that moment.
Monday, November 10, 2008
There is just not enough time in the workdays, from Monday to Friday.
A lot can be achieved if you stay after hours and come back on Saturday or Sunday.
The office may feel like an unusual dinner spot at first, but you will get used to it.
Off day and holiday in the office, may sound a bit odd, yet, you will get used to it.
Taking leave and going back to work for a few hours, may look funny at first. After a while, it become a norm.
Even you are on leave at home, you are clearing all the office mail and get things done before the dead line.
Working on non working days at office make you feel productive and look meaningful at the beginning.
So you have it for a year, then another year, and it never seems to be an end to it.
You know, it is not healthy for your body, your family life and your soul.
When you have experienced something like that in your work place, you will understand why some body just put a stop to it.
I have part-time teaching work/library work for over 10 years now and find life regaining its vitality and meaning.
Reflecting upon my work life in the mid and late 1990's, I know I have traded my life and time in exchange of a dream. I still have that dream, nevertheless, I am now pursuing it, in a different way!
To feed adverse inner-thoughts with your attention is to increase your inner pain.
To keep feeding a thought after it has savagely attacked you is insane.
Yet, some of us seem to be addicted to inner-pain until the pain becomes so great we wake up.
Adverse thoughts are like magnets attracting more adverse thoughts in the same way lions are attracted to the kill.
Only in this case the "kill" is you. Thought management is such a critical skill to develop.
How can you stop thinking adverse thoughts?
It's not the thought that comes into your mind that cause the problem.
It's the thought you choose to believe. To stop feeding adverse thoughts is to stop giving them the food they need to survive and thrive - your attention.
When your attention is no longer available to them, they will move on to a weaker victim to attack.
-- Dr T. Aaron Lim
I attended a few Seminars conducted by Dr T. Aaron Lim held in TTSH, Singapore and find his advice makes me more aware of many self imposed misery cause by our own thought.
Being aware of these self imposed thought, we can eliminate them slowly and move on to something more beneficial for ourself and others!
Dr. T. Aaron Lim, a native of Malaysia, is a graduate of St. Francis' Institution, Malaysia; College of Agriculture, Malaysia (now Universiti Putra Malaysia); Louisiana State University, USA; University of Hawaii, USA and Chaminade University of Honolulu, USA. He is a former professor at Brigham Young University-Hawaii, USA.
Born and raised in the ancient philosophies of the Orient and trained in the modern sciences of the West, Dr. Aaron has a unique talent of bridging the traditions of East and West.
He has been serving and teaching health, personal development and spiritual growth for over 30 years. As a dynamic speaker and educator, he uses his multiple talents to help others reach their fullest potential.
Along with his wife, Dehyana Lee Lim , he co - founded and co-directs "Bodhi Fellowship / Center For Inner Peace" (www.bodhifellowship.org) a nonprofit, spiritual organization dedicated to teaching unconditional, universal love and selfless service based in San Diego, California, USA and Malacca, Malaysia.
Anything you are carrying around inside of you, even good memories, takes energy to hold.
The energy that you are using to hold anything in the past, or anything in the future, such as anxiety or worry, is energy that is not available to you right now.
It is truth east or west!
Message from a friend:
SHUE T. L. 许定来
Thursday, November 06, 2008
To switch and enjoy a peaceful and secure mood, just do some short reading (like quotations) , or watching a video from YouTube.
Even if you are desk bound, it can be done with your desk top through Internet.After you disconnect yourself from the uncertainty for a short while, you will regain some strength to face the challenge.
If you are too tired to watch or read, just taking a nap or a walk of 10-15 mins will make a lot of difference.
Recalling the days I worked in the library where morning and afternoon tea were scheduled for counter staff, I think those who designed such a time table are really thoughtful!
Even we are not counter staff who have to face different clients from time to time, it helps to have a short break from your routine task every 2-3 hours. It is good for your body and mind!
Wednesday, November 05, 2008
Friday, October 31, 2008
Wednesday, October 15, 2008
Your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely what others think you are.
-- Dale Carnegie
I like to read Dale Carnegie's books, and the above quote is what I like most.
The other quote I echo is:
"Any fool can criticize, condemn, and complain but it takes character and self control to be understanding and forgiving."
Monday, October 13, 2008
If you are an accountant, you may not agree.
If you are someone who needs to get funding allocation from an accountant, I think you will agree with it sometimes!
Making money is important in life, yet creating value is more meaningful for people who value life, and I am trying to mirror the later.
That may be why I cannot be an accountant and do not know how to count and account for a lot of things.
Did you know that I ever applied for an accountancy degree course and got rejected by the university?
I think the admission officer had the foresight to save me from being a drop-out of that university!
With the flowers and plants in the garden along the five foot way, I can always enjoy a nice view from my window.
I created some paper art/craft work suitable for school displays and kept them in the glass cabinets below my office desk.
It is always nice to feel inspired by the many different ways paper can be engineered to serve different purposes.The pair of wooden black swans in the air well with the big bowl of water plants placed beside them create the illusion that they are real and happily swimming in the sunlit pond!
I like the small porcelain Merlion placed next to five birds over the ledge of the window. They seem to send their greetings to me whenever I look through the little window.
Maybe it is all these little things that make the small work space a cosy place for me to work and relax!
Sometimes, when I am tired being indoors, I just take a morning or afternoon off to do something enjoyable, like listening to talks at the museum/library, watching a performance/movie or doing some window shopping.
Sometimes, I may call a friend to chat or have lunch/tea.
On some fortunate occasions, I might unexpectedly run into an old friend or some one I know and we have a fun-filled gathering or engage our time in nostalgic talk.
Saturday, October 11, 2008
Thursday, October 02, 2008
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Sunday, September 21, 2008
"Dreams get you into the future and add excitement to the present."
"People want riches; they need fulfillment."
"If human beings are perceived as potentials rather than problems, as possessing strengths instead of weaknesses, as unlimited rather that dull and unresponsive, then they thrive and grow to their capabilities."
"It's not the situation. It's your reaction to the situation."
"Resistance is thought transformed into feeling. Change the thought that creates the resistance, and there is no more resistance."
-- Robert Conklin
These are quotes that give me the strength and power to pursue what I enjoy in life!
Friday, September 19, 2008
Show love every day by listening, noticing the good, praising, touching, and holding true to your commitments.
Grand gestures are fine, but in the long run, they count for less than the accumulation of small acts of love.
-- Rev. Mary Manin Morrissey
Thursday, September 18, 2008
If you look at what you don't have in life, you'll never have enough.
-- Oprah Winfrey
If you are able to adopt this philosophy, you will not focus on what you do not have.
You will make use of what you have now and make the best out of it!
Wednesday, September 17, 2008
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Tuesday, September 16, 2008
Monday, September 15, 2008
need only a bit of praise or encouragement --
and we will make the goal.
-- Jerome P. Fleishman
Reading this quotation after the Party and Sharing session at Teo Ann Hui Guan is rather enlightening. At the sharing session, we reflect on our Teo Chew Opera Singing Performance on 13 Sept 2008, and I think even the performance of the group leave have a lot of room for improvements, nevertheless, each and everyone of us who participanted in this evening event have put in our best and deserve some priase from one another. It is our multure support and encouragement that move and movitate us to go on.
Friday, September 12, 2008
Think not about your frustrations, but about your unfulfilled potential.
Concern yourself not with what you tried and failed in, but with what it is still possible for you to do.
-- Pope John XXIII (1881-1963)
Our fears consume a lot of our time and block us from thinking positively.
I have wasted a lot of time being fearful for something I am not certain about whether it will happen.
The best way to overcome fear, is just to do something and de-focus from it.
No one can be successful all the time, yet being frustrated and afraid of failure in future will just make the prophesy come true.
Friday, September 05, 2008
Art is knowing which ones to keep.
~~ Scott Adams
It is the supreme art of the teacher to awaken joy in creative expression and knowledge.
~~ Albert Einstein
All children are artists.
The problem is how to remain an artist once he grows up.
~~ Pablo Picasso
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Although I enjoy learning from books, it is not a quick way of acquiring knowledge or skills.
As an ex-librarian, instead of going to the library and poring pages of book and learn in non-interactive mode, I also enjoy learning from some one in person with face to face interaction.
Attending talks and go to classes enrich my life! So I also make time for it!
Wednesday, September 03, 2008
If something arouses your curiosity, analyze it using your intellect for a change.
If you are an intellectual person, the other way round is equally true!
Tuesday, September 02, 2008
You are not concerned with outer appearances, only with your inner experience.
Let the outer world be what it is.
Create your inner world as you would have it be.
This is what is meant by being in your world, but not of it.
This is mastery in living.
-- Neale Donald Walsch
misfortune--remember it'll pass.
-- Solomon Ibn Gabirol, "Mibhar HaPeninim"
Remember that Good fortune and misfortune will not last forever!
When we are enjoying good fortune, it is best to share with others, as sharing double our joys!
When we face misfortune, it is good to know that it will pass, remember nothing will last forever!
Treasure what we have!
When life is hard, don't moan and forget that every cloud has a silver lining!
Monday, September 01, 2008
I like to be a bubbly friend to my friends!
The reasons I can have so much FUN when gathering with friends are:
* we are more detached from the circumstances of our life!
* we are not obsessed by money, by how we look, and we don't compare with one another,
* and we do not need to seek approval for what we say or do, we can just be ourselves!
Thanks, friends, for making it possible!
The world believes in finite resources and in everybody's guilt. As long as we adhere to these pernicious beliefs, we will not only fail to let others shine, but we will never be able to allow ourselves to shine fully either."
-- Marianne Williamson
When you light up other people's lives and let them shine, you are the one who holds the candle with light.
The different between having the light on your candle and lighting others as well are:
With light on your candle, you have some light to shine on your journey in life. When you light up another's candle, the light on their candle not only brightens their life, it also illuminates yours!
Sometimes in life, we may hold a candle without light and live in darkness.
We would appreciate those who light it up!
When we need the light and someone passing by lights it up for us, our hearts rejoice with the brightness it brings!
That experience is unforgettable!
If creating that unforgettable experience is as convenient and as easy as lighting a candle for others, why hesitate!
I have just celebrated my birthday and I am thankful to have friends who always light up my candle when I need it!
My life is only meaningful if I can light up theirs as well!
Sunday, August 31, 2008
-- Quotation I heard sometime back!
Many of us focus our life on earning a living to fund ourselves!
Nevertheless, it is true that funding our daily living will be easier if we can focus our energy in creating something of use to others!
When you can create something good and useful for people, it will fund your life with ease!
Tuesday, August 05, 2008
Besides fulfiling my many obligations, I de-schedule some downtime for yourself.
On my mobile phone calendar, I write down something simple that I would love to do if I have the time: including projects I keep putting off, movie and TV programme I wish to watch and courses that I like to attend.
Sunday: Watch morning Lecture Programme on Star Hub Cable vision channel 50
Monday: Attend a talk or write a blog
Tuesday: Movie with a friend or find 15-30 minutes to call an old friend
Wednesday: Practise Piano for an hour
Thursday: Teo Chew Opera Singing
Saturday: Visit library or art exhibition.
It is hard to make having time for yourself a priority, nevertheless after putting it on the calendar, I make it an indulgence I don't have time to skip.
Monday, August 04, 2008
Just start to incorporate that urge into your daily routine.
Find out the underdog in the family, in your circle of friends or office, and become their "mentor" and help them walk out from their darkness.
Learn to be an observer, study and wait for the proper moment to discuss the issue.
A better outcome may derive from the discussion.
Tuesday, July 29, 2008
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Wednesday, July 23, 2008
Eyes provide sight.
Heart provides insight.
Success is a measure as decided by others.
Satisfaction is a measure as decided by you.
Knowing the road ahead is more satisfying than knowing you road ahead.
You work with the compass.
Let others work with the clock.
Always look at how far you have come rather than how far you have to go.
Always count your blessing, not what you are missing.
Seek not to find who you are, but to determine who you want to be.
Stop looking for a purpose as to why you are here. Create it.
Life is not merely a process of discovery but a process of co-creation.
Tuesday, July 22, 2008
Why has life become complicated now?
Stop analyzing life.
Just live it.
Analysis is what makes it complicated.
Your today is the tomorrow that you worried about yesterday.
You are worrying because you are analyzing.
Worrying has become your habit.
That's why you are not happy.
Uncertainty is inevitable, but worrying is optional.
Pain is inevitable, but suffering is optional.
Diamond cannot be polished without friction.
Gold cannot be purified without fire.
Good people go through trials, but don't suffer.
With that experience their life become better not bitter.
Inner strength comes from struggle and endurance, not when you are free from problems.
Thursday, July 17, 2008
The Art of Being Well — Dr. Dráuzio Varell
Drauzio Varella (b. 1943, São Paulo, Brazil) is a Brazilian physician, educator, scientist and noted medical science popularizer in the press and TV.
The ppt "The Art of Being Well" is about causes of many illness and how to avoid them and live well:
Anything - something.
So long as we don't just sit there.
If we screw it up, start over.
Try something else.
If we wait until we've satisfied all the uncertainties, it may be too late.
-- Lee Iacocca
Friday, March 07, 2008
Here is the photo taken at the Lobby of Heritage Conservation Centre, and we look contented after a fruitful visit!
Thursday, March 06, 2008
I could not believe this!
It is from an orthopedic surgeon...
This will boggle your mind and you will keep you trying over and over again to see if you can outsmart your foot, but, you can't.
It's pre-programmed in your brain!
1. Without anyone watching you (they will think you are GOOFY......) and while sitting at your desk in front of your computer, lift your right foot off the floor and make clockwise circles.
2. Now, while doing this, draw the number "6" in the air with your right hand. Your foot will change direction.
I told you so!!! And there's nothing you can do about it! You and I both know how stupid it is, but before the day is done you are going to try it again, if you've not already done so.
Send it to your friends to frustrate them too!
(arrived via email)
I just try a Google search and the
Results from Google:
about 1,790 for "HOW SMART IS YOUR RIGHT FOOT?" "orthopedic surgeon".
Here are a few links:
Monday, March 03, 2008
Keep your thoughts positive
your thoughts become your words.
Keep your words positive
your words become your behaviors.
Keep your behaviors positive
your behaviors become your habits.
Keep your habits positive
your habits become your values.
Keep your values positive
your values become your destiny.
Friday, February 29, 2008
A quotation for teachers!
for students who enjoy peer tutoring!
Tuesday, February 19, 2008
Friday, February 08, 2008
-- Denis Waitley
Thursday, February 07, 2008
Tuesday, February 05, 2008
Extracted from SpeakerNetNews, 1/25/2008
There are many unscrupulous people looking to make a fast buck from authors (and speakers who write).
Anyone thinking of writing a book would benefit by studying the “Writer Beware” page at www.sfwa.org/beware before you begin looking for writers’ services, representation, or publishers.
Monday, February 04, 2008
Sunday, February 03, 2008
-- Charles M. Schwab (1862-1939)