相處

人和人相處, 久了就有些經驗和教訓。

有些人一靠近，就讓你覺得不舒服，而且很容易產生負面情緒，這其實是表示這些人負面能量高过你能承受的。

如果那人常讓你產生負面情緒，爱批評、生氣或情緒低落，這樣的情形一多起來，心裡会有覺悟，如果不能改变，那就不要繼續常靠近。

有些房子，也可以用這樣的方式來理解。

若覺得不舒服，想逃離，沒有平靜安穩的感受，常因芝麻小事大動肝火，相信是某種能量或磁場的引導操縱作用。你如果不能改变，那就不要留在这房子。

能獨立於環境，不受外界環境影響的人並不多。

方法是找到適合安身立命的地方，与合拍的人交往相處，讓自己的生活持有一定的品質与水準。

Unity and individuality are not mutually exclusive

Oneness does not mean sameness.

Unity and individuality are not mutually exclusive.

Differences do not have to mean divisions, and contrast does not have to lead to conflict.


-- Neale Donald Walsch (The New Revelations)

Let them have their way

One way to cooperate with people who are expressing negative attitudes is to let them win,

to let them have their way.

It's easy.

When they have won,

you can continue going in your own positive direction without becoming involved in their point of view at all.


-- John-Roger